I grew up believing in Santa Claus.
I have some experiences with my dad that I now look back on with bewilderment. One
time when I was very young, my dad was going outside and I asked him where he
was going. He told me that he was going to throw corn on the roof of the house
in order to feed the reindeer (I assumed that it was so they could eat while
Santa was busy stuffing his fat butt through the chimney). Either he asked me,
or I asked him if I could come and help. He said yes, of course. So he pulled a
bucket of corn (dried corn on the ear,
mind you) from the garage and there we were, throwing corn on the roof in the
snow. I remember seeing several of the cobs rolling down into the gutter, but
some of them stayed where they landed. In any event, it hadn’t crossed my mind
that Santa was a fraud at this time in my life. Every time I saw a jet fly way
above our house, I thought it was Rudolph, the red-nosed-reindeer because all I
saw was a blinking red light.
One Christmas morning, I was awoken
to my dad shaking me and when he saw my eyes pop open, he asked me if I wanted
to go open Christmas presents, just him and me! It was 3:00AM and I was so
deeply excited that I was trembling.
Needless to say, reflecting on my past experiences and the experiences of others is how this article came about.
Needless to say, reflecting on my past experiences and the experiences of others is how this article came about.
Three reasons Christians are shying away from teaching their kids to believe in Santa Claus:
Because it distracts us from the work of Christ. A familiar bumper sticker says, “Keep Christ in Christmas,” and sometimes has a picture of the Nativity included. Some people might look at this and think it is ridiculous because they believe Christianity is a thing of the past and wonder how it even still exists as a world religion, let alone the largest of the world religions.
Jesus had an enormous impact on the
people of earth. He spoke like no other, His name and reputation are matchless,
and He performed miracles because He is God in the flesh. God became a man to
come into the world to die for our sins. What does that mean? It means that we
fall short of God’s glory (Romans 3:23). Because we fall short, we are now in a
situation. We need a savior because we have broken God’s Law. God said, “Do not
commit adultery” (7th Commandment, Exodus 20), yet Jesus shows us
that we do it all the time in our hearts (Matthew 5). Have you ever looked on
someone else with lust?
If your answer is yes, then you
know that you fall short of God’s glory (bear with me). The Good News (gospel)
is that Jesus took our place in God’s eyes, and all we have to do is believe in
Him as Lord and Savior because God raised Him from the dead (Romans 10:9; John
6:28-29). We no longer are under God’s wrath, but not only that, we get to live
for eternity with Jesus (John 3:16)!
What in the world does this have to
do with Santa Claus? The answer is nothing. Some people might try to say that
St. Nicholas gave gifts and Jesus gives
us the gift of life or something like
that, but saying that there is no comparison would be an extreme understatement
(if it can even be called that). On top
of that, St. Nicholas and Santa Claus are not even remotely similar. It is like
saying that the Mormon Jesus or the Jehovah’s Witness Jesus and
Jesus of the Bible are the same Jesus. In other words, they are not the same
and knowing the difference can either be truth or lies, but not both.
Because parents feel bad about lying to their kids. Let’s
not forget what this article is about—reasons why Christians are shying away
from teaching their kids to believe in Santa Claus. “Let your yes be yes and
your no be no,” said Jesus (Matthew 5:37; see also James 5:12). Should we ignore
this teaching of Jesus because it is harmless to tell our children about Santa
Claus? Think about what it teaches them. Silly lies are ok. Harmless lies are
ok. Some people would not even call this a lie. They might call it a fib or a joke.
The problem with this is that it gives children excuses to lie when they get
older. “What she doesn’t know won’t hurt her,” he says. If you were her, would
you want to know the truth? Why is it not as fun if she did know the truth?
Kids have imaginations like no adult. Pretending
is one of their hobbies. We like wood working or bowling or sewing or cooking,
they are experts at pretending. When I try to pretend, it is like I am acting,
and it only ends up being really awkward. Adults are generally not good
pretenders. This might be why they flat out lie, because they are trying to
help their kids be kids. The problem is that there is a huge difference between
lying and pretending.
Parents feel bad about lying to
their kids because they look at the people of the world and in the news and see
an enormous lack of integrity. People never seem to say what they are going to
do (I suppose every person in politics could be an example here). What people
do does not match what they say. A person who lacks integrity won’t get very
far in anything they do. They won’t be trusted, for one thing. Why would an
adult trust someone who isn’t reliable? The main point is that we should ask
what teaching our kids to believe in Santa Claus really does for them in the
long run. We shouldn’t give them an excuse or a bad example.
I was once talking with a man once
who honestly gave me the excuse that he didn’t believe in Jesus because his
parents also told him about Santa Claus. Now, there are several logical fallacies
committed in this argument, but why would we not make things idiot-proof, as some might say? In any
case, it is good to not give kids an excuse to lie or deny Jesus.
Because even though Santa Claus seems to promote giving, in reality
the idea promotes materialism and commercialism. Americans are probably
more materialistic than anyone in the world. I’m sure I could find a statistic
that reveals the correctness of this premise, but I am so confident that I am
correct that I don’t feel the need to bother. I am sure that you would not disagree.
It seems that this results from the
mentality of the American Dream. In the
U.S., we believe that getting to the point where we can get or do anything we
want is a fulfillment of this dream. In reality, however, we end up loading our
houses with more useless garbage that is impossible to sell at yard sales for
more than 5% of what we paid for it. Materialism is a tendency to consider
material possessions and physical comfort as more important than spiritual
values. Another word for this is idolatry. Anytime we put things in front of
God is making that thing our God. We are all guilty of it. In fact, I believe
that all sin can boil down to idolatry. If we steal, it means we are serving
our self, making our self out to be God. All selfishness does this. If we lie,
it is because we are protecting ourselves, ultimately putting ourselves in
front of God. If we lust, we are worshiping that which we lust. Same goes with
coveting. If we murder, we are ending life and acting as God… I think you get
the picture. Materialism teaches our young to trust in garbage instead of
Jesus.
The focus of commercialism is
material wealth. Commercialism seeks to make the highest dollar amount
possible, and industries feed off of the latest trends and fads and the fact
that people like to keep up with the Jones’s. They know we would buy ridiculous
looking blow up lawn ornaments, so they run with it. It might start out as
something innocent, but as the dollar amounts keep adding up, so does the
hunger for more. In the end, the manufacturer is all about quantity and they
are trusting in the almighty dollar. They are worshiping money and wealth. They
play off of this harmless lie we tell our children. Think about it. What other
reason would we buy this junk? In any event, it is a waste of money and all we
are doing is promoting things we should maybe reconsider.
Christians are shying away from
teaching their kids to believe in Santa Claus because they know they should be.
These are only three reasons, and I am sure you could think of more. Please
feel free to share and comment on other reasons the fictitious Santa Claus
should not be taught as fact to our children.
Written by Nace Howell through the grace of the Lord Jesus
© Nace Howell, 2015
One reason I thought was kind of funny, my wife told me that she was always afraid of Santa, because he was a strange man and broke into their house in the middle of the night.
ReplyDeleteThat is kind of funny and definitely a good reason! We should seriously consider what this does to children. Think about what happens when a child finds out that Santa really is a lie. It is obviously traumatic.
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